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Bra Fitting 101 and Other Things I Learned at Coup de Foudre Lingerie

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Let's talk BRAS baby. Candidly, up until last week, I hadn't given much thought to. As a woman who is, ehem, pear-shaped, I've spent more time shopping for jeans and pants that fit my thighs and rear than what's on top. Is this a curse or a blessing? Well, for me, it's always kind of worked out in my favor. I haven't had to struggle with backaches, awkward high school gym class moments, or heartbreaking fittings at the mall. Life with bitty buds is kinda easy. I pretty much survive off of sticky bras, sticky petals, sticky tape, or honestly, no bra at all (full transparency, I am writing this blog post sans bra.)  It's been well, really nice.  But, I have been avoiding something important for every woman, a real bra fitting.  

So here's what I did. 

My good friend Sophie from Rosé Media reached out to me to stop by one of her client's lingerie shops, Coup de Foudre Lingerie, for a bra fitting.  Located next to Dry Bar (hellllo new bottle of dry shampoo) I immediately felt at ease when I met the owner, Kiersten Ballman. She's awesome. 

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Kiersten didn't skip a beat.  We chatted about what I was looking for, and she grabbed some beautiful pieces, and we got straight to the point, the bra fitting. 

 

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I learned a lot during this fitting:

1. I'm not wearing the right size - so I figured Kiersten was going to tell me this. But her answer wasn't what I was expecting.  Like many women, I was told, I make the mistake of sizing up in the band when a bra feels uncomfortable.  Looser is better, right? Wrong. The brand should, in fact, be tight because bras are meant to, well, lift and support you. Duh Libby. 

2. I'm wearing my bra too low - another point that surprised me.  After I was given my proper bra size, I was shown exactly where on my back my bra should fall. LOL, my old bra lines on my back showed just how low low low my strapless was sitting on my back. No bueno. We got me up where I should be and it really did change the way I looked and even the way I stand. 

3. No, you don't need 25 bras - "A woman really only needs 3-5 bras for her everyday rotation." Kiersten explained. The key word here, ROTATION.  I like many women, get into the habit of wearing my bras to death. Literally death. And then forgetting that different bras serve different purposes.  You should have a great strapless bra for sure, and 2-3 everyday bras in black and nude. And then, all of the fun stuff that you want to integrate. 

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4. Not all bras are made the same - this may seem like a no-brainer, but I really didn't think about it until I saw the beautifully framed piece (below) in the shop.  It displays all of the beautiful and important materials that go into making a high-quality brassiere. Spoiler alert: you won't find this quality in your Victoria's Secret bra. Coup de Foudre carries a high line of affordable lingerie that will last you for quite a while.  

5. They accept bra donations! Woohoo! I loved this.  You can bring in your used bras and Coupe de Foudre will donate them to women in need of support.  

6. Bra Fittings at Coup de Foudre are FREE! Can't beat that. 

After trying on a few fun pieces, and wow, it actually was more fun than I thought, I made my selection. I wanted something that felt like me but also felt like spoiling myself. I decided on Coupe de Foudre's most popular set, The Marie Joe Jane.  It's super elegant and sexy with just the right amount of intricate embroidery over the black tulle. 
The best part, it's so comfortable.   

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Special thanks to Sophie, Kiersten and the team at Coup de Foudre Lingerie for answering all of my questions, and making me feel comfortable and sexy.  *Disclaimer: the pieces I selected were gifted to me. Thank you thank you thank you! 

Make sure to pop into Coup de Foudre Lingerie soon and follow them on Instagram for the latest and greatest. And remember, all bra fittings are FREE! 

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The Perfect Rainbow Wrap Dress for PRIDE

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DC Pride has come and gone and I can truly say it was one of the best weekends of my life. Nothing I did was really planned per say, but the concerts, events, and parties I went to will be cherished in my memory forever.  That being said, the parade was incredible and I had the best time wearing this Aqua dress from Bloomingdale's.  It was heavy enough to carry some beautiful movement but also light enough that I wasn't super warm.  I know that NYC Pride is coming up, and if you still don't have anything to wear, or if you just really want a fun dress for the summer, I can't recommend this number enough.  Check out my other favorite Pride outfits below. Most importantly, show love and kindness to one another EVERY DAY, not just during Pride month. 

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Colorful Gay PRIDE Outfits and Accessories I'm Loving

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It's PRIDE month baby and there's nothing I love more than supporting ALL LOVE! If I could have 100 outfit changes next weekend for DC Pride, I would. There's still time to snag an outfit or two. Here are a few things I'm loving! 

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(Some) Of the DC Concerts I'm Going To This Spring - And You Should Too

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A few years ago, I had someone ask me if I would rather wait 3 hours in line for an amazing meal, or concert. And while I love question, because I think it says a lot about a person, I am becoming to feel like my answer is more 50/50 than it used to be.  “Oh, dinner, of course!” I announced. Don’t get me wrong, I love music. Bob Dylan was my first concert in middle school after begging my parents to take me. And I had my fair share of Lollapalooza in high school and college. But something kind of faded for me, I was sick of seeing artists at large venues with massive crowds so I stopped going.  

Fast forward to early last year, I made it a goal of mine to see more shows at my favorite venues; U Street Music Hall, 9:30 Club, and Flash. It was great, and I knew that this year, I would want more. I’ve kept up with this list since the new year and have been added to it weekly. I am so excited for the newer DC venues, like The Anthem (amazing by the way) and Union Stage. 

Upcoming Shows

January 23 – Darius, Cashmere Cat, MØ at 9:30
January 24 – Gilligan Moss, Toro y Moi at Flash
February 10 - Steve Aoki at Echostage
February 13 – Børns at Anthem
February 15 – Youngr, Elephante, Matoma at 9:30 Club
February 16 - Don Diablo at Echostage
February 22 - Lane 8 at 9:30 Club
March 5 - LP at 9:30 Club

March 10 - Tycho at Flash
March 10 - Beth Ditto at 9:30 Club
March 17 - Courtship at UHall
March 20 – Billie English at Black Cat
March 21 – Betty Who at 9:30 Club
April 7 – Vérité at 9:30 Club
April 18 - Sofi Tukker at 9:30 Club
April 19 – Clean Bandit at 9:30 Club
April 20 – Gramatik at Echostage
May 6 – Bahamas at 9:30 Club
May 8 – Kygo and Blackbear at Anthem
May 13 – Jorja Smith Union Stage
May 16 - Darius at Flash
May 27 - Chad Valley at Black Cat

See any that I’m missing? PLEASE TELL ME! I love hearing new suggestions, especially at the smaller venues in DC.   

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